写给亲爱的中学生家长——宁波市名优班主任的50封信
家校合作，不再焦虑
让班主任助力您的孩子健康成长
孩子进入中学后，家长们普遍开始疑惑：我的关心，为什么孩子不理解？为什么孩子就是不听自己的？为什么一向乖巧的孩子忽然开始顶嘴，一言不合就大发脾气？而孩子们同样疑惑：为什么爸爸妈妈就那么害怕我们脱离他们预定的轨道呢？人又为什么要学习？
本书由宁波市教育局与宁波教育学院共同策划，精选了50封宁波市中学名优班主任给家长的信。本书以信的形式撰写，内容包含了家校合作的重要内容，包括学习习惯养成、假期安排、家长心态、亲子陪伴、青春期教育、考前调整等问题。相信书本前困惑的您，一定能在书中找到答案。
王晶晶，宁波教育学院教授，教育培训学院院长，宁波市班主任专业发展指导中心副主任。长期从事教师培训工作，主持完成二十多个省市级课题，公开发表三十多篇论文，出版《教育家办学：改造学校之路》一书。2020年被评为新时代教师队伍建设工作先进个人。
003 陪伴是好的教育-（徐小红）
008 把握五个关键点，从容应对新阶段-（谢鑫耀）
013 认识、发现、引领儿童-（杜艳红）
017 每一个孩子都应是真实的天使-（徐嘉勇）
020 您给予的≠他需要的-（胡 瑛）
024 风雨同舟初三路-（叶秀强）
028 为孩子的成长画一个完美的圆-（吕新辉）
032 相伴同行青春路-（包颖颖）
037 做智慧父母，与孩子“谈情说爱”-（石晓为）
041 成为时间的小主人-（张 璇)
045 莫让手机引发危机-（江秋雁）
049 每一个父亲都是孩子的英雄-（王 飞）
053 至善若水，润泽无痕-（李 欣）
班主任是我国中小学教育中不可或缺的、重要的专业性岗位，是学生成长过程中的导师，是德育队伍中“立德树人”的主力军。作为学校中全面负责学生的思想、学习、生活等工作的组织者、领导者和教育者，全体任课教师教育教学工作的协调者，沟通学校与家庭、社区的桥梁，班主任的师德修养和专业素质会直接影响学生的健康成长与发展。
为贯彻落实《中共中央 国务院关于全面深化新时代教师队伍建设改革的意见》和全国教育大会精神，宁波市深入推进班主任队伍建设工作，构建完善了班主任专业发展机制和培养培训体系，致力打造一支高素质、专业化、创新性强的班主任队伍，全面对接和推进以“立德树人”为根本任务的宁波教育综合改革和高水平教育现代化战略。
信的由来
初中生正值青春期，其身心发育伴随着自我意识的萌芽。他们渴望自由，想要独立，上进却也叛逆。初中三年是孩子独立人格形成的关键期。和初中生相处好的模式是陪伴。以德润心，遵循初中生的心理发展规律并伴其成长；以生为本，允许学生在实践中犯错；以文化人，学生用知识尊重教师，教师用文化引领学生，师生共成长。
陪伴是好的教育
尊敬的家长朋友们：
你们好！
今天我想和你们一起聊聊孩子们的那些事儿。
一、有梦想就有希望
“没有比脚更长的路，没有比人更高的山！”作为父母，我们要相信每一个孩子都是自带正能量的，都是积极向上的，都是愿意用自己的心去丈量生命之路的。请给孩子一个梦想吧，他会还我们一个奇迹。
关键词：坚持
坚持是一种精神，是努力拼搏、永不放弃的精神。就像“女排精神”，那不是非赢得冠军不可，而是哪怕不会赢也要努力拼搏的坚持精神。
我的儿子在小学六年级时，有一天回家告诉我，这是他在小学阶段参加运动会的后一次机会了。我突然意识到我们要抓住机遇，努力一把。我问：“还有哪个项目没有同学报名？”儿子说：“1500 米。”于是我们决定报名参加1500 米长跑项目。当初的想法是，如果没有名次，班级总分不会受到影响，如果有名次，那就是班级、个人双赢。比赛前的每天晚上八点，我们娘俩都会一起准时出现在操场，他跑8 圈，我跑7 圈，作为比赛前的训练。我们坚持了整整一个月，收获了很多很多。
我们在相互陪伴中有了更多的交流，亲子关系越来越和谐。父母只有了解了孩子，才能理解孩子，而孩子只有在感受到被父母理解后，才会接受父母的教育。家长朋友们，和孩子一起去跑步吧，相信你们一定会获得新的力量。
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家校合作，不再焦虑
让班主任助力您的孩子健康成长
孩子进入中学后，家长们普遍开始疑惑：我的关心，为什么孩子不理解？为什么孩子就是不听自己的？为什么一向乖巧的孩子忽然开始顶嘴，一言不合就大发脾气？而孩子们同样疑惑：为什么爸爸妈妈就那么害怕我们脱离他们预定的轨道呢？人又为什么要学习？
本书由宁波市教育局与宁波教育学院共同策划，精选了50封宁波市中学名优班主任给家长的信。本书以信的形式撰写，内容包含了家校合作的重要内容，包括学习习惯养成、假期安排、家长心态、亲子陪伴、青春期教育、考前调整等问题。相信书本前困惑的您，一定能在书中找到答案。
王晶晶，宁波教育学院教授，教育培训学院院长，宁波市班主任专业发展指导中心副主任。长期从事教师培训工作，主持完成二十多个省市级课题，公开发表三十多篇论文，出版《教育家办学：改造学校之路》一书。2020年被评为新时代教师队伍建设工作先进个人。
003 陪伴是好的教育-（徐小红）
008 把握五个关键点，从容应对新阶段-（谢鑫耀）
013 认识、发现、引领儿童-（杜艳红）
017 每一个孩子都应是真实的天使-（徐嘉勇）
020 您给予的≠他需要的-（胡 瑛）
024 风雨同舟初三路-（叶秀强）
028 为孩子的成长画一个完美的圆-（吕新辉）
032 相伴同行青春路-（包颖颖）
037 做智慧父母，与孩子“谈情说爱”-（石晓为）
041 成为时间的小主人-（张 璇)
045 莫让手机引发危机-（江秋雁）
049 每一个父亲都是孩子的英雄-（王 飞）
053 至善若水，润泽无痕-（李 欣）
班主任是我国中小学教育中不可或缺的、重要的专业性岗位，是学生成长过程中的导师，是德育队伍中“立德树人”的主力军。作为学校中全面负责学生的思想、学习、生活等工作的组织者、领导者和教育者，全体任课教师教育教学工作的协调者，沟通学校与家庭、社区的桥梁，班主任的师德修养和专业素质会直接影响学生的健康成长与发展。
为贯彻落实《中共中央 国务院关于全面深化新时代教师队伍建设改革的意见》和全国教育大会精神，宁波市深入推进班主任队伍建设工作，构建完善了班主任专业发展机制和培养培训体系，致力打造一支高素质、专业化、创新性强的班主任队伍，全面对接和推进以“立德树人”为根本任务的宁波教育综合改革和高水平教育现代化战略。
信的由来
初中生正值青春期，其身心发育伴随着自我意识的萌芽。他们渴望自由，想要独立，上进却也叛逆。初中三年是孩子独立人格形成的关键期。和初中生相处好的模式是陪伴。以德润心，遵循初中生的心理发展规律并伴其成长；以生为本，允许学生在实践中犯错；以文化人，学生用知识尊重教师，教师用文化引领学生，师生共成长。
陪伴是好的教育
尊敬的家长朋友们：
你们好！
今天我想和你们一起聊聊孩子们的那些事儿。
一、有梦想就有希望
“没有比脚更长的路，没有比人更高的山！”作为父母，我们要相信每一个孩子都是自带正能量的，都是积极向上的，都是愿意用自己的心去丈量生命之路的。请给孩子一个梦想吧，他会还我们一个奇迹。
关键词：坚持
坚持是一种精神，是努力拼搏、永不放弃的精神。就像“女排精神”，那不是非赢得冠军不可，而是哪怕不会赢也要努力拼搏的坚持精神。
我的儿子在小学六年级时，有一天回家告诉我，这是他在小学阶段参加运动会的后一次机会了。我突然意识到我们要抓住机遇，努力一把。我问：“还有哪个项目没有同学报名？”儿子说：“1500 米。”于是我们决定报名参加1500 米长跑项目。当初的想法是，如果没有名次，班级总分不会受到影响，如果有名次，那就是班级、个人双赢。比赛前的每天晚上八点，我们娘俩都会一起准时出现在操场，他跑8 圈，我跑7 圈，作为比赛前的训练。我们坚持了整整一个月，收获了很多很多。
我们在相互陪伴中有了更多的交流，亲子关系越来越和谐。父母只有了解了孩子，才能理解孩子，而孩子只有在感受到被父母理解后，才会接受父母的教育。家长朋友们，和孩子一起去跑步吧，相信你们一定会获得新的力量。
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• International Shipping: Currently, we only ship within the USA.
• Tracking Information: Every order is trackable. You will receive a tracking number once your order has been shipped. Products may be shipped from various global fulfillment centers.
Shipping Delays:
Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.
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Standard Delivery: Most orders are shipped within 3-7 business days. Larger items may utilize LTL shipping for safe handling.
-
Handling Time: We handle shipments on business days (Monday - Friday), with a preparation time of 1-2 days.
-
Additional Charges: Some items require additional shipping charges due to their size, weight, or special handling. These charges are specified on the product pages and are not eligible for shipping discounts.
-
Exclusions: Gift cards, packaging, taxes, and prior purchases do not count toward the minimum purchase requirement for free shipping. This offer is valid only for shipments to U.S. addresses, including Puerto Rico.
Delivery Details:
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Estimates: Standard shipping within the US typically takes 3-7 business days. These are estimates and not guarantees.
-
Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.
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Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.
Shipping Confirmation:
You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.
Order Modifications:
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Issues with Delivery:
If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.
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Duration: You have 30 days from receiving your item to initiate a return.
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Condition: Items must be unworn, unwashed, with original tags and packaging intact.
-
Shipping Costs: Customers are responsible for return shipping costs.
-
Packaging: Ensure returned items are well-packaged to avoid damage during transit.
-
Tracking: Use a trackable and insured shipping method as we are not liable for items lost or damaged on return.
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Initiating a Return: Contact us at cs@everymarket.com to start your return. We will provide a return shipping label and instructions upon approval. Returns without prior approval will not be accepted.
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Certain items are not eligible for return:
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Electronic devices after 30 days (e.g., computers, laptops, Kindles)
-
Gift cards, prepaid game cards
-
Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items
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Customized or personalized products
-
Items with special shipping restrictions
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Window: Eligible products may be returned within 30 days of delivery for a refund.
-
Refund Method: Refunds are processed to the original payment method or as store credit for items purchased with gift cards.
-
Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.
Claims
Inspect your order upon arrival and report any defects, damages, or incorrect items immediately to allow us to address the issue. For claims, contact our support team with details of the issue.
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For the quickest service, return your original item and place a new order for the desired product once your return is accepted.
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