读懂孩子的世界：父母和网络少年的27堂成长沟通课 李强 电子工业出版社 【新华正版保证图书】
- 作者：李强
- 著：李强
- 装帧：平装
- 印次：1
- 定价：75.00
- ISBN：9787121425349
- 出版社：电子工业出版社
- 开本：16开
- 印刷时间：暂无
- 语种：暂无
- 出版时间：2022-01-01
- 页数：300
- 外部编号：31371148
- 版次：1
- 成品尺寸：暂无
1. 揭开标签，看到孩子 1
――儿童青少年心理问题的分析与应对
2. 是什么让游戏这么好玩？ 6
――用网络游戏的方式培养孩子的新习惯
3. 异地求学的学生 11
――异地求学带来的不良后果及应对措施
4. 游戏是我未来的事业 16
――如何正确引导将游戏作为未来职业选择的孩子
5. 叛逆的青春期 21
――青春期与网络过度使用
6. 游戏有什么魔力，让孩子无法自拔 26
――如何在现实世界创造满足孩子需要的机会
7. 小规则，大讲究 33
――如何为游戏使用制定有效规则
8. 被孤独感淹没的青少年 38
――青少年社交孤独对网络沉浸的影响及其应对
9. “只有打游戏，才能靠近你们” 43
――当孩子周围朋友都玩网络游戏时所导致的问题
10.看得见的问题，看不见的创伤 60
――孩子行为问题的解读和处理
11.扛不住的挫折，背得起的乌龟壳 66
――父母教育孩子应对挫折的有效措施
. 距离遥远，爱不缺位 56
――建立远距离亲子互动的良模式
13. 用心交流，用爱沟通 61
――如何进行有效的亲子沟通
14. 网游“填补”不完整的心 67
――当家庭不完整时所带来的网络过度使用问题
15. 有效家庭环境：孩子成长的保护伞 72
――建立有效家庭环境的方法和措施
16. “成”也亲子关系，“败”也亲子关系 77
――从父母那里得不到的爱，就去网络中寻找
17. 重压下的家庭 逃进游戏的孩子 83
――生活的压力，让父母无暇顾及孩子
18. 谁是一家之主？ 89
――隔代抚养对网络使用的影响和应对建议
19. 到处寻找教育专家的父母 94
――给教育上无所适从父母提出的一些建议
20. 被游戏收养的孩子 98
――父母没有时间陪伴孩子所导致的网络使用过度问题
21. 剪断了我的翅膀，还想要我飞翔 103
――从溺爱到爱家长需要什么改变
22. “请相信我，我的孩子” 109
――亲子间信任感降低的原因及应对策略
23. “除了摔我手机，你还会什么？” 114
――粗暴的教育方式所带来的问题激化
24. 孩子，我该如何重新靠近你 119
――给重新回归家庭父母的一些建议
25. 除了关心，你还在乎什么
――不让成为挡在父母和孩子之间的墙
26.别让网络游戏成为孩子重要的“关系” 130
――如何与孩子建立良好的亲子关系
27.父母结盟：教育孩子的方式 135
――父母给孩子带来的不良影响及处理对策
网游研究面面观：专家评述
李强 高文B：心理学视角下的青少年网络游戏行为：特征、动机与引导 139
曹慧：玩还是不玩，是一个问题！――教育心理学工作者对屏幕游戏使用的争论 149
田丰：从社会学视角看游戏的空间和时间 159
陈娜：一个网络素养夏令营里的家庭故事――青少年辅导一线工作者手记 167
李强，博士，南开大学心理学教授、博士生导师。南开大学社会心理学系主任，兼任中国社会心理学会常务理事，中国心理学会临床与咨询心理学专业委员会副主任委员委员，中国心理卫生协会心理咨询师专业委员会副主任委员，天津市心理卫生协会理事长，中国心理学会临床心理学注册心理师、注册督导师，天津市中心医院心理健康咨询门诊特聘专家，赛智心理咨询（天津）有限公司导师顾问，参加中德精神分析治疗师连续培训项目。从事临床心理学、健康心理学教学研究与临床工作27年。承担社会科学重点项目、一般项目和青年项目等20余项，发表学术130余篇，出版《健康心理学》、《咨询心理学》等专著教材10余部。获得天津市社会科学研究成果二三等奖各2次，主编《心理自指南》、《心理保健手册》等科普读物，被评为全国社会科学普及活动社科工作者。
"孩子为何沉迷于虚拟的网络世界？这与亲子关系有何关联？收手机、断网真的是解决问题的有效手段吗？面对父母的询问，孩子是否有口难言？家长应该如何控制自己的情绪？
27个网络少年正面管教案例，位心理咨询师深度解读。
透过心理学视角，层层剖析网络少年的内心世界，直面孩子的真实需求。
教你用科学平等的对话，引导孩子合理使用网络，构建彼此信任的亲子关系，从根源上解决网络成瘾问题。"
很多父母一方面认同互联网社会是未来社会的发展趋势，孩子需要接触各种新的媒介，另一方面又忍不住担心孩子因为上网耽误学习。家长们内心的这种矛盾和焦虑，很多时候源于他们对青少年网络生活缺乏了解，同时对有效地引导孩子使用网络缺乏自信。
孩子为何沉迷于虚拟的网络世界？这与亲子关系有何关联？收手机、断网真的是解决问题的有效方式吗？面对父母关心的问题，孩子为何避而不谈？家长应该如何控制自己的情绪……
本书从心理咨询的视角，层层解读网络少年的内心世界，教你用科学的方法，引导孩子合理使用网络，养成良好的习惯，守护孩子成长。
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- 作者：李强
- 著：李强
- 装帧：平装
- 印次：1
- 定价：75.00
- ISBN：9787121425349
- 出版社：电子工业出版社
- 开本：16开
- 印刷时间：暂无
- 语种：暂无
- 出版时间：2022-01-01
- 页数：300
- 外部编号：31371148
- 版次：1
- 成品尺寸：暂无
1. 揭开标签，看到孩子 1
――儿童青少年心理问题的分析与应对
2. 是什么让游戏这么好玩？ 6
――用网络游戏的方式培养孩子的新习惯
3. 异地求学的学生 11
――异地求学带来的不良后果及应对措施
4. 游戏是我未来的事业 16
――如何正确引导将游戏作为未来职业选择的孩子
5. 叛逆的青春期 21
――青春期与网络过度使用
6. 游戏有什么魔力，让孩子无法自拔 26
――如何在现实世界创造满足孩子需要的机会
7. 小规则，大讲究 33
――如何为游戏使用制定有效规则
8. 被孤独感淹没的青少年 38
――青少年社交孤独对网络沉浸的影响及其应对
9. “只有打游戏，才能靠近你们” 43
――当孩子周围朋友都玩网络游戏时所导致的问题
10.看得见的问题，看不见的创伤 60
――孩子行为问题的解读和处理
11.扛不住的挫折，背得起的乌龟壳 66
――父母教育孩子应对挫折的有效措施
. 距离遥远，爱不缺位 56
――建立远距离亲子互动的良模式
13. 用心交流，用爱沟通 61
――如何进行有效的亲子沟通
14. 网游“填补”不完整的心 67
――当家庭不完整时所带来的网络过度使用问题
15. 有效家庭环境：孩子成长的保护伞 72
――建立有效家庭环境的方法和措施
16. “成”也亲子关系，“败”也亲子关系 77
――从父母那里得不到的爱，就去网络中寻找
17. 重压下的家庭 逃进游戏的孩子 83
――生活的压力，让父母无暇顾及孩子
18. 谁是一家之主？ 89
――隔代抚养对网络使用的影响和应对建议
19. 到处寻找教育专家的父母 94
――给教育上无所适从父母提出的一些建议
20. 被游戏收养的孩子 98
――父母没有时间陪伴孩子所导致的网络使用过度问题
21. 剪断了我的翅膀，还想要我飞翔 103
――从溺爱到爱家长需要什么改变
22. “请相信我，我的孩子” 109
――亲子间信任感降低的原因及应对策略
23. “除了摔我手机，你还会什么？” 114
――粗暴的教育方式所带来的问题激化
24. 孩子，我该如何重新靠近你 119
――给重新回归家庭父母的一些建议
25. 除了关心，你还在乎什么
――不让成为挡在父母和孩子之间的墙
26.别让网络游戏成为孩子重要的“关系” 130
――如何与孩子建立良好的亲子关系
27.父母结盟：教育孩子的方式 135
――父母给孩子带来的不良影响及处理对策
网游研究面面观：专家评述
李强 高文B：心理学视角下的青少年网络游戏行为：特征、动机与引导 139
曹慧：玩还是不玩，是一个问题！――教育心理学工作者对屏幕游戏使用的争论 149
田丰：从社会学视角看游戏的空间和时间 159
陈娜：一个网络素养夏令营里的家庭故事――青少年辅导一线工作者手记 167
李强，博士，南开大学心理学教授、博士生导师。南开大学社会心理学系主任，兼任中国社会心理学会常务理事，中国心理学会临床与咨询心理学专业委员会副主任委员委员，中国心理卫生协会心理咨询师专业委员会副主任委员，天津市心理卫生协会理事长，中国心理学会临床心理学注册心理师、注册督导师，天津市中心医院心理健康咨询门诊特聘专家，赛智心理咨询（天津）有限公司导师顾问，参加中德精神分析治疗师连续培训项目。从事临床心理学、健康心理学教学研究与临床工作27年。承担社会科学重点项目、一般项目和青年项目等20余项，发表学术130余篇，出版《健康心理学》、《咨询心理学》等专著教材10余部。获得天津市社会科学研究成果二三等奖各2次，主编《心理自指南》、《心理保健手册》等科普读物，被评为全国社会科学普及活动社科工作者。
"孩子为何沉迷于虚拟的网络世界？这与亲子关系有何关联？收手机、断网真的是解决问题的有效手段吗？面对父母的询问，孩子是否有口难言？家长应该如何控制自己的情绪？
27个网络少年正面管教案例，位心理咨询师深度解读。
透过心理学视角，层层剖析网络少年的内心世界，直面孩子的真实需求。
教你用科学平等的对话，引导孩子合理使用网络，构建彼此信任的亲子关系，从根源上解决网络成瘾问题。"
很多父母一方面认同互联网社会是未来社会的发展趋势，孩子需要接触各种新的媒介，另一方面又忍不住担心孩子因为上网耽误学习。家长们内心的这种矛盾和焦虑，很多时候源于他们对青少年网络生活缺乏了解，同时对有效地引导孩子使用网络缺乏自信。
孩子为何沉迷于虚拟的网络世界？这与亲子关系有何关联？收手机、断网真的是解决问题的有效方式吗？面对父母关心的问题，孩子为何避而不谈？家长应该如何控制自己的情绪……
本书从心理咨询的视角，层层解读网络少年的内心世界，教你用科学的方法，引导孩子合理使用网络，养成良好的习惯，守护孩子成长。
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• Shipping: Standard Domestic Shipping within the United States charges USD 4.99. Standard International Shipping from United Kingdom, Germany and Japan to the United States charges 14.99.
• Order Processing: Please allow 1-2 business days for order processing and preparation before shipment.
• Domestic Shipping: Orders within the U.S. are shipped via USPS or FedEx, depending on the origin of the product. The average transit time is 3-7 business days.
• International Shipping: Currently, we only ship within the USA.
• Tracking Information: Every order is trackable. You will receive a tracking number once your order has been shipped. Products may be shipped from various global fulfillment centers.
Shipping Delays:
Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.
Shipping Options:
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Standard Delivery: Most orders are shipped within 3-7 business days. Larger items may utilize LTL shipping for safe handling.
-
Handling Time: We handle shipments on business days (Monday - Friday), with a preparation time of 1-2 days.
-
Additional Charges: Some items require additional shipping charges due to their size, weight, or special handling. These charges are specified on the product pages and are not eligible for shipping discounts.
-
Exclusions: Gift cards, packaging, taxes, and prior purchases do not count toward the minimum purchase requirement for free shipping. This offer is valid only for shipments to U.S. addresses, including Puerto Rico.
Delivery Details:
-
Estimates: Standard shipping within the US typically takes 3-7 business days. These are estimates and not guarantees.
-
Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.
-
Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.
Shipping Confirmation:
You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.
Order Modifications:
If you need to cancel or modify your order, please contact our customer support immediately.
Issues with Delivery:
If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.
Customer Support:
Our team is available 24/7 to assist you with any questions or concerns regarding your order. We are committed to ensuring a smooth shopping experience.
Return & Refund Policy Overview
Please review our return and refund policies below to ensure a smooth transaction process.
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-
Duration: You have 30 days from receiving your item to initiate a return.
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Condition: Items must be unworn, unwashed, with original tags and packaging intact.
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Shipping Costs: Customers are responsible for return shipping costs.
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Packaging: Ensure returned items are well-packaged to avoid damage during transit.
-
Tracking: Use a trackable and insured shipping method as we are not liable for items lost or damaged on return.
-
Initiating a Return: Contact us at cs@everymarket.com to start your return. We will provide a return shipping label and instructions upon approval. Returns without prior approval will not be accepted.
How to Return
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Method: Returns must be sent back by mail to the address provided in the return instructions.
Return Label
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Defective Products: Return labels are provided for defective items.
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Non-Defective Returns: Customers are responsible for obtaining their return shipping label.
Product Conditions for Return
-
Eligible Products: Returns are only accepted for items in new condition.
Nonreturnable Items
Certain items are not eligible for return:
-
Electronic devices after 30 days (e.g., computers, laptops, Kindles)
-
Gift cards, prepaid game cards
-
Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items
-
Customized or personalized products
-
Items with special shipping restrictions
Refund Policy
-
Window: Eligible products may be returned within 30 days of delivery for a refund.
-
Refund Method: Refunds are processed to the original payment method or as store credit for items purchased with gift cards.
-
Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.
Claims
Inspect your order upon arrival and report any defects, damages, or incorrect items immediately to allow us to address the issue. For claims, contact our support team with details of the issue.
Exchange Policy
For the quickest service, return your original item and place a new order for the desired product once your return is accepted.
Return Address
EveryMarket Customer Service 2101 E Terra Ln, O'Fallon, MO 63366
Customer Support
Available 24/7 for any questions or assistance needed:
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Phone: +1 636-312-5925
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Email: cs@everymarket.com
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