天性教养 中信出版社

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天性教养 中信出版社

天性教养 中信出版社

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? 2023年《纽约时报》畅销书,美国亚马逊儿童研究社科分类榜/首!文化社会人类学分类榜榜/首!给出养育高情商、高技能、高自信的快乐小孩的育儿法. ? 你有思考过:为什么现在的孩子脾气越来越大,越来越自私?现在的西方育儿方法就没有缺点吗? 很多人相信现代的西方育儿方法能够让孩子健康成长。但是你是否总发现这些方法在现实生活中有时并不奏效?看世界各地文化中经过时间验证的智慧与经验如何培养出更自主、平和、乐于助人的孩子。 ? 揭开解放父母焦虑的育儿方法,不喊叫、无冲突的育儿秘密。 跟随作者的脚步,深入玛雅、因纽特、哈扎古村落,在日常生活中探索历久弥新的育儿方法。用实际例子、具体步骤,一步步带领父母有效与孩子互动,在安全、快乐的前提下,让你的孩子变得更平和、自主和乐于帮忙。 
内容简介
这本书是跨文化育儿的典范。对于如何养育一个独立、温暖、身心健康的高情商、高技能、高自信小孩,给出了自身独到的见解!
我们在培养孩子的路上已经走上了让孩子高效、具有竞争力的道路,那么我们是否注意到他们的性情变化和更高一级的精神需求?
在培养孩子具备能力上竞争力的同时,我们更希望他是独立的、友善的、具有合作精神和健全人格的,这样的孩子在会让自己的生活充满阳光,减少抑郁等心理问题的发生,也会因责任感和高合作精神在未来社会中脱颖而出。通过反思现代西方教育的缺憾,作者通过不同的文化与智慧的综合学习,帮助我们完善一个健康人格的孩子。
作者杜克里夫拥有化学博士学位和多年做记者的经验,她有一个3岁的女儿罗茜。在养育孩子罗茜之初,她坚信已有的经过科学研究论证的育儿方法能够帮助她很好地养育她的孩子。但随着罗茜的长大,罗茜变得暴躁、不合作,已有的育儿方法对此束手无策,此时作者发现被美国父母认为是正确的育儿建议实际上论证过程不够严谨,并未经过长期的验证,参与实验的孩子数量也不够多。因此,她渴望寻找有效的、经过实验验证的育儿方法,于是作者带着她三岁的女儿踏上了寻找育儿智慧之路的旅途,她们先后去了玛雅、因纽特、哈扎三个古村落,从中学到了培养慷慨、自主、平和孩子的方法,体会到了没有大喊大叫、权力争斗的家庭氛围。
作者简介
Michaeleen Doucleff麦克林·杜克里夫博士是加州大学伯克利分校培养的一名科学家,拥有一个博士学位和两个硕士学位。杜克里夫曾是世界久负盛名的科学期刊之一《细胞》(Cell)的编辑,以及美国国家公共电台(NPR)的记者,负责健康和科学领域的采访报道。2014年,杜克里夫及其团队因报道西非埃博拉疫情而获得乔治·福斯特·皮博迪奖。2019年,她在NPR上有两个“备受欢迎”的广播故事,阅读时间的总和超过16年——就是本书的内容,关于玛雅人如何养育乐于助人的孩子和因纽特人如何养育不那么易怒的孩子的热门故事。这为她赢得了奖项,甚至引发了国际讨论。她的粉丝和支持者中大咖众多,从瑞秋·马丁等主持人,到《纽约时报》畅销作家丹·西格尔博士,再到切尔西·克林顿等名流。NPR给了杜克里夫一年的休假时间,专门从事此书的写作,主题即跨文化育儿和儿童的健康发展。

张书嘉, 北京大学心理学硕士,心理学图书独立翻译。

目  录
前言
第一部分古怪而狂野的西方育儿
第1章世界上最“奇怪”的父母
奇怪”(WEIRD),指的是西方的(western)、教育程度高的(educated)、工业化的(industrialized)、富裕的(rich)和民主的(democratic)。我们的社会塑造了我们奇怪的育儿方式,我们又将奇怪的方式传递下去。
……
第2章我们如何奇怪地养育了孩子?
第二部分玛雅文明的育儿方法(TEAM:Togetherness亲密合作)
第3章世界上最热心助人的孩子
第4章如何让孩子主动做家务?
第5章如何培养灵活、善于合作的孩子?
第6章什么样的激励比表扬更好?
第三部分因纽特人的情商鼓励(TEAM:Encouragement鼓励)
第7章世界上最平静的孩子
媒体评论
《天性教养》充满了智慧的想法,我想立即在我自己的孩子身上使用。 ——帕梅拉·德鲁克曼,《纽约时报书评》

生动地讲述了她和她三岁的女儿罗茜到世界的角落去研究育儿技巧......杜克里夫为父母提供了具体且易于实现的育儿说明。父母们能看到杜克里夫具有感染力的好奇心,这本书提供的育儿指导令人鼓舞。 ——《出版人周刊》
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? 2023年《纽约时报》畅销书,美国亚马逊儿童研究社科分类榜/首!文化社会人类学分类榜榜/首!给出养育高情商、高技能、高自信的快乐小孩的育儿法. ? 你有思考过:为什么现在的孩子脾气越来越大,越来越自私?现在的西方育儿方法就没有缺点吗? 很多人相信现代的西方育儿方法能够让孩子健康成长。但是你是否总发现这些方法在现实生活中有时并不奏效?看世界各地文化中经过时间验证的智慧与经验如何培养出更自主、平和、乐于助人的孩子。 ? 揭开解放父母焦虑的育儿方法,不喊叫、无冲突的育儿秘密。 跟随作者的脚步,深入玛雅、因纽特、哈扎古村落,在日常生活中探索历久弥新的育儿方法。用实际例子、具体步骤,一步步带领父母有效与孩子互动,在安全、快乐的前提下,让你的孩子变得更平和、自主和乐于帮忙。 
内容简介
这本书是跨文化育儿的典范。对于如何养育一个独立、温暖、身心健康的高情商、高技能、高自信小孩,给出了自身独到的见解!
我们在培养孩子的路上已经走上了让孩子高效、具有竞争力的道路,那么我们是否注意到他们的性情变化和更高一级的精神需求?
在培养孩子具备能力上竞争力的同时,我们更希望他是独立的、友善的、具有合作精神和健全人格的,这样的孩子在会让自己的生活充满阳光,减少抑郁等心理问题的发生,也会因责任感和高合作精神在未来社会中脱颖而出。通过反思现代西方教育的缺憾,作者通过不同的文化与智慧的综合学习,帮助我们完善一个健康人格的孩子。
作者杜克里夫拥有化学博士学位和多年做记者的经验,她有一个3岁的女儿罗茜。在养育孩子罗茜之初,她坚信已有的经过科学研究论证的育儿方法能够帮助她很好地养育她的孩子。但随着罗茜的长大,罗茜变得暴躁、不合作,已有的育儿方法对此束手无策,此时作者发现被美国父母认为是正确的育儿建议实际上论证过程不够严谨,并未经过长期的验证,参与实验的孩子数量也不够多。因此,她渴望寻找有效的、经过实验验证的育儿方法,于是作者带着她三岁的女儿踏上了寻找育儿智慧之路的旅途,她们先后去了玛雅、因纽特、哈扎三个古村落,从中学到了培养慷慨、自主、平和孩子的方法,体会到了没有大喊大叫、权力争斗的家庭氛围。
作者简介
Michaeleen Doucleff麦克林·杜克里夫博士是加州大学伯克利分校培养的一名科学家,拥有一个博士学位和两个硕士学位。杜克里夫曾是世界久负盛名的科学期刊之一《细胞》(Cell)的编辑,以及美国国家公共电台(NPR)的记者,负责健康和科学领域的采访报道。2014年,杜克里夫及其团队因报道西非埃博拉疫情而获得乔治·福斯特·皮博迪奖。2019年,她在NPR上有两个“备受欢迎”的广播故事,阅读时间的总和超过16年——就是本书的内容,关于玛雅人如何养育乐于助人的孩子和因纽特人如何养育不那么易怒的孩子的热门故事。这为她赢得了奖项,甚至引发了国际讨论。她的粉丝和支持者中大咖众多,从瑞秋·马丁等主持人,到《纽约时报》畅销作家丹·西格尔博士,再到切尔西·克林顿等名流。NPR给了杜克里夫一年的休假时间,专门从事此书的写作,主题即跨文化育儿和儿童的健康发展。

张书嘉, 北京大学心理学硕士,心理学图书独立翻译。

目  录
前言
第一部分古怪而狂野的西方育儿
第1章世界上最“奇怪”的父母
奇怪”(WEIRD),指的是西方的(western)、教育程度高的(educated)、工业化的(industrialized)、富裕的(rich)和民主的(democratic)。我们的社会塑造了我们奇怪的育儿方式,我们又将奇怪的方式传递下去。
……
第2章我们如何奇怪地养育了孩子?
第二部分玛雅文明的育儿方法(TEAM:Togetherness亲密合作)
第3章世界上最热心助人的孩子
第4章如何让孩子主动做家务?
第5章如何培养灵活、善于合作的孩子?
第6章什么样的激励比表扬更好?
第三部分因纽特人的情商鼓励(TEAM:Encouragement鼓励)
第7章世界上最平静的孩子
媒体评论
《天性教养》充满了智慧的想法,我想立即在我自己的孩子身上使用。 ——帕梅拉·德鲁克曼,《纽约时报书评》

生动地讲述了她和她三岁的女儿罗茜到世界的角落去研究育儿技巧......杜克里夫为父母提供了具体且易于实现的育儿说明。父母们能看到杜克里夫具有感染力的好奇心,这本书提供的育儿指导令人鼓舞。 ——《出版人周刊》
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运费政策:目前,本店针对不同商品设置了不同的运费计算方式,实际运费金额请以结算页面为准,有任何疑问请及时联系官方客服(电话:400-072-0808)。

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Shipping: Standard Domestic Shipping within the United States charges first item USD 5.99 and additional item USD 3.0 each. Standard International Shipping from United Kingdom, Germany, Italian and Japan to the United States charges first item USD 9.99 and additional item USD 4.0 each.

Import Duty: Everymarket collects applicable duties and taxes on goods imported into the U.S. at checkout, it's calculated based on the goods value multiply by the rate. For United Kingdom and China goods is 10%, Germany, Italian and Japan goods is 15%. We are committed to making your U.S. shopping experience simple and transparent. The method of delivery—either Delivered Duty Paid (DDP) or Delivered Duty Unpaid (DDU)—depends on whether duties and taxes are collected at the time of your purchase.

Order Processing: Please allow 1-2 business days for order processing and preparation before shipment. 

Domestic Shipping: Orders within the U.S. are shipped via USPS or FedEx, depending on the origin of the product. Average transit times to the United States is 3 - 7 Business days and average transit times to International is 7 - 14 Business days 

International Shipping: Currently, we only ship within the USA. 

Tracking Information: Every order is trackable. You will receive a tracking number once your order has been shipped. Products may be shipped from various global fulfillment centers.

Shipping Delays: 

Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.

Shipping Options:

  • Standard Delivery: Most orders are shipped within 3-7 business days. Larger items may utilize LTL shipping for safe handling.

  • Handling Time: We handle shipments on business days (Monday - Friday), with a preparation time of 1-2 days.

  • Additional Charges: Some items require additional shipping charges due to their size, weight, or special handling. These charges are specified on the product pages and are not eligible for shipping discounts.

  • Exclusions: Gift cards, packaging, taxes, and prior purchases do not count toward the minimum purchase requirement for free shipping. This offer is valid only for shipments to U.S. addresses, including Puerto Rico.

Delivery Details:

  • Estimates: Standard shipping within the US typically takes 3-7 business days. These are estimates and not guarantees.

  • Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.

  • Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.

Shipping Confirmation:

You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.

Order Modifications:

If you need to cancel or modify your order, please contact our customer support immediately.

Issues with Delivery:

If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.

Customer Support:

Our team is available 24/7 to assist you with any questions or concerns regarding your order. We are committed to ensuring a smooth shopping experience.

Return & Refund Policy Overview

Please review our return and refund policies below to ensure a smooth transaction process.

Return Policy

  • Duration: You have 30 days from receiving your item to initiate a return.

  • Condition: Items must be unworn, unwashed, with original tags and packaging intact.

  • Shipping Costs: Please contact us to initiate your return, we'll offer return label for free. Otherwise we are not responsible for the return shipping costs of the items.

  • Packaging: Ensure returned items are well-packaged to avoid damage during transit.

  • Tracking: Use a trackable and insured shipping method as we are not liable for items lost or damaged on return.

  • Initiating a Return: Contact us at cs@everymarket.com to start your return. We will provide a return shipping label and instructions upon approval. Returns without prior approval will not be accepted.

How to Return

  • Method: Returns must be sent back by mail to the address provided in the return instructions.

Return Label

  • Please contact us to get return labels.

Product Conditions for Return

  • Eligible Products: Returns are only accepted for items in new condition.

Nonreturnable Items

Certain items are not eligible for return:

  • Electronic devices after 30 days (e.g., computers, laptops, Kindles)

  • Gift cards, prepaid game cards

  • Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items

  • Customized or personalized products

  • Items with special shipping restrictions

Refund Policy

  • Window: Eligible products may be returned within 30 days of delivery for a refund.

  • Refund Method: Refunds are processed to the original payment method or as store credit for items purchased with gift cards.

  • Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.

Claims

Inspect your order upon arrival and report any defects, damages, or incorrect items immediately to allow us to address the issue. For claims, contact our support team with details of the issue.

Exchange Policy

For the quickest service, return your original item and place a new order for the desired product once your return is accepted.

Return Address

EveryMarket Customer Service 2101 E Terra Ln, O'Fallon, MO 63366

Customer Support

Available 24/7 for any questions or assistance needed:

  • Phone: +1 (800) 660-3783

  • Email: cs@everymarket.com

 

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