马云情商课
马云说:“很多人都非常聪明,比我聪明,也非常努力,但为什么我成功了?我认为,一是毅力,二是坚持。”这其实就是我们所说的“高情商”,即是一种洞察人生价值、揭示人生目标的悟性,是一种克服内心矛盾冲突、协调人际关系的技巧,是一种生活智慧。所以,我们有理由说:高情商的人比高智商的人更容易获得成功。
在中国商业史上,马云*是一个异类。他一没资金,二没背景,三没技术,却凭借出色的做人智慧、口才技能、创意思维等,取得了石破天惊的成功。显然,这一切都归结为他独一无二的高情商。
王拥军,专栏作家,多家财经媒体特约评论员。长期从事企业案例研究,撰写并出版多部经管类畅销著作。
作为一种“情绪智力”,情商指人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。对此,有人说过,“情商是骑手,智商是赛马,没有骑手,马的速度和力量都是枉然。”回望马云50载人生沉浮,20余年创业风云,这个传奇人物在情商方面的成功带给我们怎样的启示呢?
在青少年时期,马云确实是个顽童。作为一名普通人,他长相不讨喜,智力上也看不出有过人之处,基本上就是一个不被看好的普通孩子。但后,他硬是凭着自己与生俱来的不用麻药直接缝针却不哭的强硬劲,以及坚持不懈的努力,打造出一个震撼世界的互联网帝国。他的成功让很多人跌破眼镜。
马云的成功来源于什么呢?许多人觉得是好的运气,而他们却忽视了马云自身的情商。其实,成功不仅取决于你的谋略才智,在很大程度上,还取决于你正确处理个人情感、个人与他人情感之间关系的能力,也就是自我管理和调节人际关系的能力。
“上帝用模型造人,塑造了你之后,就把模型捣碎了。因此,你是的。”一位哲人曾这样说。大千世界里,每一个人都是一道风景,所以我们不必过多地在意别人的言论和评价,只要走好自己的路,做好自己就足够了。
做自己,就不必随世俗之波逐流,就不必为别人的言语行为左右。做自己,就要保持心灵的洁净,别让雨下进自己真实的灵魂里。正是因为有做自己的信念,梅花才能经一番寒彻骨的磨砺,在冰雪中独自翩跹起舞。也只缘做自己的坚守,我们才能守住心中的一方净土,在尘世做一股清流。
当然,做自己决不意味着放纵自我,一意孤行。在必要的时候,听取别人的忠谏,做出适当的调整,也是完善自我的一条捷径。
马云在创立阿里巴巴时曾直言不讳地说:“阿里巴巴一直想做一个影响全世界经济或者是亚洲经济,至少是影响中国经济的一家公司。”初人们听了这话,都暗想:马云真是不知天高地厚,放出这样的狂言,后一定会搬起石头砸了自己的脚。可谁想到,经过几年的努力,马云真的让自己的话变成了现实。
1995年,马云在美国次接触互联网之后,很兴奋地回到中国,立刻创办了当时早的网站——中国黄页网站。在当时那个年代,全中国人民对“因特网”是什么东西,毫无概念。
当时的马云也对互联网一窍不通。可马云是个有头脑的家伙,他借用比尔·盖茨的名号大胆预言道:“互联网将改变人类生活的方方面面。”于是,他像大多数做业务的人一样,学兔子,先吃起了“窝边草”。从他身边的朋友开始“骗”起,走遍杭州城的大街小巷,直到“骗”到京城的权威媒体。一路的坚持不懈和努力,马云得到了越来越多的认可。就这样,马云跌跌撞撞地在互联网的道路上摸爬滚打,后却真的走出了一条自己的路,创办了阿里巴巴,并获得空前的成功。
有人这样评价道:“马云是‘骗子’也好,是‘传教士’也罢,无论如何都不可否认这样一个事实:这个小个子的浙江企业家,身上有一种特异的、让人无法抗拒的魔力、威力、魅力。如果我们非要用‘骗子’这个词来形容的话,也许应该加几个修饰词——一个有着相当高的‘骗术’的、讲究‘技术含量’的‘超级骗子’。”

Shipping Overview:
• Shipping: Standard Domestic Shipping within the United States charges first item USD 6.99 and additional item USD 3.0 each. Standard International Shipping from United Kingdom, Germany, Italian and Japan to the United States charges first item USD 11.99 and additional item USD 4.0 each.
• Import Duty: Everymarket collects applicable duties and taxes on goods imported into the U.S. at checkout, it's calculated based on the goods value multiply by the rate. For United Kingdom and China goods is 10%, Germany, Italian and Japan goods is 15%. We are committed to making your U.S. shopping experience simple and transparent. The method of delivery—either Delivered Duty Paid (DDP) or Delivered Duty Unpaid (DDU)—depends on whether duties and taxes are collected at the time of your purchase.
• Order Processing: Please allow 1-2 business days for order processing and preparation before shipment.
• Domestic Shipping: Orders within the U.S. are shipped via USPS or FedEx, depending on the origin of the product. Average transit times to the United States is 3 - 7 Business days and average transit times to International is 7 - 14 Business days
• International Shipping: Currently, we only ship within the USA.
• Tracking Information: Every order is trackable. You will receive a tracking number once your order has been shipped. Products may be shipped from various global fulfillment centers.
Shipping Delays:
Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.
Shipping Options:
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Standard Delivery: Most orders are shipped within 3-7 business days. Larger items may utilize LTL shipping for safe handling.
-
Handling Time: We handle shipments on business days (Monday - Friday), with a preparation time of 1-2 days.
-
Additional Charges: Some items require additional shipping charges due to their size, weight, or special handling. These charges are specified on the product pages and are not eligible for shipping discounts.
-
Exclusions: Gift cards, packaging, taxes, and prior purchases do not count toward the minimum purchase requirement for free shipping. This offer is valid only for shipments to U.S. addresses, including Puerto Rico.
Delivery Details:
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Estimates: Standard shipping within the US typically takes 3-7 business days. These are estimates and not guarantees.
-
Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.
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Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.
Shipping Confirmation:
You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.
Order Modifications:
If you need to cancel or modify your order, please contact our customer support immediately.
Issues with Delivery:
If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.
Customer Support:
Our team is available 24/7 to assist you with any questions or concerns regarding your order. We are committed to ensuring a smooth shopping experience.
Return & Refund Policy Overview
Please review our return and refund policies below to ensure a smooth transaction process.
Return Policy
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Duration: You have 30 days from receiving your item to initiate a return.
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Condition: Items must be unworn, unwashed, with original tags and packaging intact.
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Shipping Costs:
- If your return is approved due to a defective, damaged, or incorrect item, we will provide a prepaid return shipping label at no cost.
- If the item has no quality issues and matches the product listing and description, please contact our Customer Service team before returning it. Once your return is authorized, you must return the item according to the provided instructions. In this case, the return shipping cost is the customer's responsibility.
- We are not responsible for return shipping costs for items returned without prior authorization. -
Packaging: Ensure returned items are well-packaged to avoid damage during transit.
-
Tracking: Use a trackable and insured shipping method as we are not liable for items lost or damaged on return.
-
Initiating a Return: Contact us at cs@everymarket.com to start your return. We will provide a return shipping label and instructions upon approval. Returns without prior approval will not be accepted.
How to Return
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Method: Returns must be sent back by mail to the address provided in the return instructions.
Return Label
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Please contact us to get return labels.
Product Conditions for Return
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Eligible Products: Returns are only accepted for items in new condition.
Nonreturnable Items
Certain items are not eligible for return:
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Electronic devices after 30 days (e.g., computers, laptops, Kindles)
-
Gift cards, prepaid game cards
-
Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items
-
Customized or personalized products
-
Items with special shipping restrictions
Refund Policy
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Window: Eligible products may be returned within 30 days of delivery for a refund.
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Refund Method: Refunds are processed to the original payment method or as store credit for items purchased with gift cards.
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Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.
Claims
Inspect your order upon arrival and report any defects, damages, or incorrect items immediately to allow us to address the issue. For claims, contact our support team with details of the issue.
Exchange Policy
For the quickest service, return your original item and place a new order for the desired product once your return is accepted.
Return Address
EveryMarket Customer Service 2101 E Terra Ln, O'Fallon, MO 63366
Customer Support
Available 24/7 for any questions or assistance needed:
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Phone: +1 (800) 660-3783
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Email: cs@everymarket.com
马云说:“很多人都非常聪明,比我聪明,也非常努力,但为什么我成功了?我认为,一是毅力,二是坚持。”这其实就是我们所说的“高情商”,即是一种洞察人生价值、揭示人生目标的悟性,是一种克服内心矛盾冲突、协调人际关系的技巧,是一种生活智慧。所以,我们有理由说:高情商的人比高智商的人更容易获得成功。
在中国商业史上,马云*是一个异类。他一没资金,二没背景,三没技术,却凭借出色的做人智慧、口才技能、创意思维等,取得了石破天惊的成功。显然,这一切都归结为他独一无二的高情商。
王拥军,专栏作家,多家财经媒体特约评论员。长期从事企业案例研究,撰写并出版多部经管类畅销著作。
作为一种“情绪智力”,情商指人在情绪、情感、意志、耐受挫折等方面的品质。对此,有人说过,“情商是骑手,智商是赛马,没有骑手,马的速度和力量都是枉然。”回望马云50载人生沉浮,20余年创业风云,这个传奇人物在情商方面的成功带给我们怎样的启示呢?
在青少年时期,马云确实是个顽童。作为一名普通人,他长相不讨喜,智力上也看不出有过人之处,基本上就是一个不被看好的普通孩子。但后,他硬是凭着自己与生俱来的不用麻药直接缝针却不哭的强硬劲,以及坚持不懈的努力,打造出一个震撼世界的互联网帝国。他的成功让很多人跌破眼镜。
马云的成功来源于什么呢?许多人觉得是好的运气,而他们却忽视了马云自身的情商。其实,成功不仅取决于你的谋略才智,在很大程度上,还取决于你正确处理个人情感、个人与他人情感之间关系的能力,也就是自我管理和调节人际关系的能力。
“上帝用模型造人,塑造了你之后,就把模型捣碎了。因此,你是的。”一位哲人曾这样说。大千世界里,每一个人都是一道风景,所以我们不必过多地在意别人的言论和评价,只要走好自己的路,做好自己就足够了。
做自己,就不必随世俗之波逐流,就不必为别人的言语行为左右。做自己,就要保持心灵的洁净,别让雨下进自己真实的灵魂里。正是因为有做自己的信念,梅花才能经一番寒彻骨的磨砺,在冰雪中独自翩跹起舞。也只缘做自己的坚守,我们才能守住心中的一方净土,在尘世做一股清流。
当然,做自己决不意味着放纵自我,一意孤行。在必要的时候,听取别人的忠谏,做出适当的调整,也是完善自我的一条捷径。
马云在创立阿里巴巴时曾直言不讳地说:“阿里巴巴一直想做一个影响全世界经济或者是亚洲经济,至少是影响中国经济的一家公司。”初人们听了这话,都暗想:马云真是不知天高地厚,放出这样的狂言,后一定会搬起石头砸了自己的脚。可谁想到,经过几年的努力,马云真的让自己的话变成了现实。
1995年,马云在美国次接触互联网之后,很兴奋地回到中国,立刻创办了当时早的网站——中国黄页网站。在当时那个年代,全中国人民对“因特网”是什么东西,毫无概念。
当时的马云也对互联网一窍不通。可马云是个有头脑的家伙,他借用比尔·盖茨的名号大胆预言道:“互联网将改变人类生活的方方面面。”于是,他像大多数做业务的人一样,学兔子,先吃起了“窝边草”。从他身边的朋友开始“骗”起,走遍杭州城的大街小巷,直到“骗”到京城的权威媒体。一路的坚持不懈和努力,马云得到了越来越多的认可。就这样,马云跌跌撞撞地在互联网的道路上摸爬滚打,后却真的走出了一条自己的路,创办了阿里巴巴,并获得空前的成功。
有人这样评价道:“马云是‘骗子’也好,是‘传教士’也罢,无论如何都不可否认这样一个事实:这个小个子的浙江企业家,身上有一种特异的、让人无法抗拒的魔力、威力、魅力。如果我们非要用‘骗子’这个词来形容的话,也许应该加几个修饰词——一个有着相当高的‘骗术’的、讲究‘技术含量’的‘超级骗子’。”

Shipping Overview:
• Shipping: Standard Domestic Shipping within the United States charges first item USD 6.99 and additional item USD 3.0 each. Standard International Shipping from United Kingdom, Germany, Italian and Japan to the United States charges first item USD 11.99 and additional item USD 4.0 each.
• Import Duty: Everymarket collects applicable duties and taxes on goods imported into the U.S. at checkout, it's calculated based on the goods value multiply by the rate. For United Kingdom and China goods is 10%, Germany, Italian and Japan goods is 15%. We are committed to making your U.S. shopping experience simple and transparent. The method of delivery—either Delivered Duty Paid (DDP) or Delivered Duty Unpaid (DDU)—depends on whether duties and taxes are collected at the time of your purchase.
• Order Processing: Please allow 1-2 business days for order processing and preparation before shipment.
• Domestic Shipping: Orders within the U.S. are shipped via USPS or FedEx, depending on the origin of the product. Average transit times to the United States is 3 - 7 Business days and average transit times to International is 7 - 14 Business days
• International Shipping: Currently, we only ship within the USA.
• Tracking Information: Every order is trackable. You will receive a tracking number once your order has been shipped. Products may be shipped from various global fulfillment centers.
Shipping Delays:
Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.
Shipping Options:
-
Standard Delivery: Most orders are shipped within 3-7 business days. Larger items may utilize LTL shipping for safe handling.
-
Handling Time: We handle shipments on business days (Monday - Friday), with a preparation time of 1-2 days.
-
Additional Charges: Some items require additional shipping charges due to their size, weight, or special handling. These charges are specified on the product pages and are not eligible for shipping discounts.
-
Exclusions: Gift cards, packaging, taxes, and prior purchases do not count toward the minimum purchase requirement for free shipping. This offer is valid only for shipments to U.S. addresses, including Puerto Rico.
Delivery Details:
-
Estimates: Standard shipping within the US typically takes 3-7 business days. These are estimates and not guarantees.
-
Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.
-
Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.
Shipping Confirmation:
You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.
Order Modifications:
If you need to cancel or modify your order, please contact our customer support immediately.
Issues with Delivery:
If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.
Customer Support:
Our team is available 24/7 to assist you with any questions or concerns regarding your order. We are committed to ensuring a smooth shopping experience.
Return & Refund Policy Overview
Please review our return and refund policies below to ensure a smooth transaction process.
Return Policy
-
Duration: You have 30 days from receiving your item to initiate a return.
-
Condition: Items must be unworn, unwashed, with original tags and packaging intact.
-
Shipping Costs:
- If your return is approved due to a defective, damaged, or incorrect item, we will provide a prepaid return shipping label at no cost.
- If the item has no quality issues and matches the product listing and description, please contact our Customer Service team before returning it. Once your return is authorized, you must return the item according to the provided instructions. In this case, the return shipping cost is the customer's responsibility.
- We are not responsible for return shipping costs for items returned without prior authorization. -
Packaging: Ensure returned items are well-packaged to avoid damage during transit.
-
Tracking: Use a trackable and insured shipping method as we are not liable for items lost or damaged on return.
-
Initiating a Return: Contact us at cs@everymarket.com to start your return. We will provide a return shipping label and instructions upon approval. Returns without prior approval will not be accepted.
How to Return
-
Method: Returns must be sent back by mail to the address provided in the return instructions.
Return Label
-
Please contact us to get return labels.
Product Conditions for Return
-
Eligible Products: Returns are only accepted for items in new condition.
Nonreturnable Items
Certain items are not eligible for return:
-
Electronic devices after 30 days (e.g., computers, laptops, Kindles)
-
Gift cards, prepaid game cards
-
Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items
-
Customized or personalized products
-
Items with special shipping restrictions
Refund Policy
-
Window: Eligible products may be returned within 30 days of delivery for a refund.
-
Refund Method: Refunds are processed to the original payment method or as store credit for items purchased with gift cards.
-
Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.
Claims
Inspect your order upon arrival and report any defects, damages, or incorrect items immediately to allow us to address the issue. For claims, contact our support team with details of the issue.
Exchange Policy
For the quickest service, return your original item and place a new order for the desired product once your return is accepted.
Return Address
EveryMarket Customer Service 2101 E Terra Ln, O'Fallon, MO 63366
Customer Support
Available 24/7 for any questions or assistance needed:
-
Phone: +1 (800) 660-3783
-
Email: cs@everymarket.com
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