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他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救 Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

 

基本信息

Format: Paperback | 432 pages

Dimensions: 152 x 229 x 23mm | 403g

Publication date:03 Aug 2018

Publisher: Penguin Putnam Inc

Imprint: Berkley Publishing Corporation,U.S.

ISBN: 9780425191651

页面参数仅供参考,具体以实物为准

 

书籍简介

在这本具有开创性的畅销书中,伦迪·班克罗夫特--一位专门与施暴男性打交道的咨询师--利用他对施暴者思维方式的了解,帮助女性认识到她们何时被控制或被贬低,并找到摆脱施暴关系的方法。

 

“他说他爱你。那么......他为什么要这样做?”你已经一次又一次地问自己这个问题。

现在你有机会看到易怒的和控制欲强的男人的内心世界,并改变你的生活。在《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救》中,你将了解到:

 

- 虐待的早期警告信号

- 虐待性思维的本质

- 关于施虐者的迷思

- 十种虐待性人格类型

- 酒精的作用

- 你能解决什么,你不能解决什么

- 以及如何安全地摆脱虐待关系

 

"毫无疑问,这是迄今为止关于有暴力倾向的男性的问题的信息量广泛和能够提供有用自救技巧的书。掌握了书中的见解的女性,将走上恢复对自己生活的控制的道路。"--哈佛大学公共卫生学院暴力预防项目主任Jay G. Silverman博士

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft--a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men--uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.

 

He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?

 

You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men--and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about:

 

- The early warning signs of abuse

- The nature of abusive thinking

- Myths about abusers

- Ten abusive personality types

- The role of alcohol

- What you can fix, and what you can't

- And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely

 

"This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives."--Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

 

作者简介

伦迪·班克罗夫特在虐待、创伤和康复领域有超过二十五年的经验。他已经出版了五本书,包括畅销书《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救》、《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救的日常智慧》、《当爸爸伤害妈妈》、《作为父母的施虐者》和《我应该留下还是应该离开》。伦迪在他的咨询小组中与1000多名受虐待的男人合作。他还广泛地担任过监护权评估员、虐待儿童调查员和专家证人,并向美外的350名听众发表过演讲。

 

Lundy Bancroft has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestseller Why Does He Do That?, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, The Batterer as Parent, and Should I Stay of Should I Go?. Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad.

 

目录

Why Does He Do That? Acknowledgments

Note on Terminology

Introduction

Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking

1. The Mystery

2. The Mythology

3. The Abusive Mentality

4. The Types of Abusive Men

 

Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships

5. How Abuse Begins

6. The Abusive Man in Everyday Life

7. Abusive Men and Sex

8. Abusive Men and Addiction

9. The Abusive Man and Breaking Up

 

Part III: The Abusive Man in the World

10. Abusive Men as Parents

11. Abusive Men and Their Allies

12. The Abusive Man and the Legal System

 

Part IV: Changing the Abusive Man

13. The Making of an Abusive Man

14. The Process of Change

15. Creating an Abuse-Free World

 

 

Resources

Index

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他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救 Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

 

基本信息

Format: Paperback | 432 pages

Dimensions: 152 x 229 x 23mm | 403g

Publication date:03 Aug 2018

Publisher: Penguin Putnam Inc

Imprint: Berkley Publishing Corporation,U.S.

ISBN: 9780425191651

页面参数仅供参考,具体以实物为准

 

书籍简介

在这本具有开创性的畅销书中,伦迪·班克罗夫特--一位专门与施暴男性打交道的咨询师--利用他对施暴者思维方式的了解,帮助女性认识到她们何时被控制或被贬低,并找到摆脱施暴关系的方法。

 

“他说他爱你。那么......他为什么要这样做?”你已经一次又一次地问自己这个问题。

现在你有机会看到易怒的和控制欲强的男人的内心世界,并改变你的生活。在《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救》中,你将了解到:

 

- 虐待的早期警告信号

- 虐待性思维的本质

- 关于施虐者的迷思

- 十种虐待性人格类型

- 酒精的作用

- 你能解决什么,你不能解决什么

- 以及如何安全地摆脱虐待关系

 

"毫无疑问,这是迄今为止关于有暴力倾向的男性的问题的信息量广泛和能够提供有用自救技巧的书。掌握了书中的见解的女性,将走上恢复对自己生活的控制的道路。"--哈佛大学公共卫生学院暴力预防项目主任Jay G. Silverman博士

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft--a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men--uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.

 

He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?

 

You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men--and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about:

 

- The early warning signs of abuse

- The nature of abusive thinking

- Myths about abusers

- Ten abusive personality types

- The role of alcohol

- What you can fix, and what you can't

- And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely

 

"This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives."--Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

 

作者简介

伦迪·班克罗夫特在虐待、创伤和康复领域有超过二十五年的经验。他已经出版了五本书,包括畅销书《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救》、《他为什么打我:家庭暴力的识别与自救的日常智慧》、《当爸爸伤害妈妈》、《作为父母的施虐者》和《我应该留下还是应该离开》。伦迪在他的咨询小组中与1000多名受虐待的男人合作。他还广泛地担任过监护权评估员、虐待儿童调查员和专家证人,并向美外的350名听众发表过演讲。

 

Lundy Bancroft has over twenty-five years of experience in the fields of abuse, trauma, and recovery. He has published five books, including the bestseller Why Does He Do That?, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?, When Dad Hurts Mom, The Batterer as Parent, and Should I Stay of Should I Go?. Lundy has worked with over 1000 abusive men in his counseling groups. He has also served extensively as a custody evaluator, child abuse investigator, and expert witness, and has presented to 350 audiences across the U.S. and abroad.

 

目录

Why Does He Do That? Acknowledgments

Note on Terminology

Introduction

Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking

1. The Mystery

2. The Mythology

3. The Abusive Mentality

4. The Types of Abusive Men

 

Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships

5. How Abuse Begins

6. The Abusive Man in Everyday Life

7. Abusive Men and Sex

8. Abusive Men and Addiction

9. The Abusive Man and Breaking Up

 

Part III: The Abusive Man in the World

10. Abusive Men as Parents

11. Abusive Men and Their Allies

12. The Abusive Man and the Legal System

 

Part IV: Changing the Abusive Man

13. The Making of an Abusive Man

14. The Process of Change

15. Creating an Abuse-Free World

 

 

Resources

Index

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Please note that shipping times may vary due to factors beyond our control, such as weather conditions, natural disasters, or peak holiday periods. While we strive to ensure timely delivery, the exact arrival time cannot be guaranteed and is managed by the shipping carrier.

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  • Shipping Restrictions: We ship to all 50 states, Washington, DC, U.S. territories, and APO/FPO/DPO addresses. Shipping options vary based on the delivery address.

  • Remote Areas: Shipments to remote areas may incur additional charges or require pickup from a nearby shipping partner’s location.

Shipping Confirmation:

You will receive a shipping confirmation email with a tracking number as soon as your order is dispatched. If you do not receive this email immediately, please be assured that your items will arrive within the estimated delivery window provided at checkout.

Order Modifications:

If you need to cancel or modify your order, please contact our customer support immediately.

Issues with Delivery:

If your order shows as delivered but you have not received it, please contact the shipping carrier directly to resolve the issue. For persistent problems, contact our customer service at cs@everymarket.com.

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  • Perishable goods, live insects, some jewelry, some health and personal care items

  • Customized or personalized products

  • Items with special shipping restrictions

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  • Processing Time: Refunds are processed within 3-5 business days after we receive the return; please allow additional time for shipping and bank processing.

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